Raising Beautiful Messes Mom-Tween Membership (Ages 9-14)
"Because middle school shouldn’t break your bond—it should build it."
The attitude, the emotions, the friend drama—it’s a storm no one warned you about.
But what if this stage wasn’t just something to survive? What if it was your chance to help her become exactly who she’s meant to be?
Here, you’ll get the tools and support to lead her through middle school with confidence—so she stands her ground, speaks with respect, and creates her own acceptance instead of chasing it.
Let’s lead her there. Together.
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Why This Is Different
Middle school isn’t just tough—it’s where leadership begins.
And parenting? It’s leadership.
But here’s the thing—this isn’t just a kid problem or a parent problem.
It’s about how you grow together.
When emotions run high, when friendships get messy, when respect feels like a daily battle—you both need tools to navigate it.
That’s why this membership supports both of you.
✔ For moms – Learn how to guide her without power struggles, micromanaging, or second-guessing yourself.
✔ For tweens – She’ll gain skills to handle friendships, emotions, and tough situations without losing herself in the process.
✔ For both of you – Strengthen your bond so she comes to you—not TikTok, not her friends—when life gets messy.
Trust and respect go hand in hand.
This membership helps you build both—so she listens, opens up, and knows you're on her side.
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Why Nothing Seems To Change
You talk, explain, repeat yourself—but nothing changes.
She erupts, moves on, and you’re left exhausted and hurt.
The cycle repeats.
Why? Because timing and approach matter as much as the lesson itself.
Most parents try to teach in the heat of the moment—when emotions are high and logic is off.
That’s why it feels like you’re talking to a wall.
I teach you how to break the cycle—not just by pausing, but by knowing what to do with that pause so she actually learns.
This isn’t about lecturing or controlling. It’s about leading.
And once you know how? Everything shifts.
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You And Your Daughter's Success Path
Know Your Values
Your family thrives when everyone knows what they stand for. And your daughter? She needs to define who she is from the inside out. When she’s clear on her values, she’ll walk with confidence, set strong boundaries, and lead herself—no matter what middle school throws her way.
Manage Your Emotions
Mastering emotions is the key to calmer conversations and fewer blow-ups. Learn to name, communicate, and process emotions—together with your daughter—so frustration doesn’t turn into fights. We’ll guide you both every step of the way.
Use Logic For Good Choices (Yours and Hers)
Most parenting advice focuses on rules—but what about reasoning? When you and your daughter learn to use logic for better choices, you stop reacting and start leading. This missing piece helps her think critically, make confident decisions, and navigate life with independence.
Eve, Mom of 7th Grader
"I followed the framework, stayed calm, and worked through the process. Later, she snuggled up and apologized on her own. It’s slow and not always easy, but seeing her reflect and take responsibility independently was amazing. Grateful for the progress and for you!"
Support That Fits Your Life—Not the Other Way Around
Life is busy. Middle school moves fast. This membership is designed to keep up with you.
Whether you need quick solutions or deeper guidance, you’ll have expert support at your fingertips.
✔ Mom-Tween Workshops – Learn and grow together with hands-on guidance.
✔ Live Mom Calls & Tween Calls – Because you both need a space to be heard.
✔ Resources on Demand – Quick answers when you need them most.
✔ A Private Community – You’re not in this alone. Find support, share wins, and ask for advice.
✔ Personal Coaching Calls – Get to the heart of what’s happening and move forward with clarity.
You use it how it fits you. Some moms just attend calls. Some focus on the resources. Others dive into everything. No pressure. No “falling behind.” Just real support, when and how you need it.
Join The Membership TodayParenting Doesn’t Wait—Neither Should Your Support
You can keep reacting, feeling stuck in the chaos, wondering why every conversation turns into a battle.
Or you can learn to lead—together.
For less than 3 therapy sessions, you get a full year of support for all the in-between moments—when she’s struggling, when you’re unsure what to say, and when you both need guidance.
✔ Coaching On The Go – Quick, practical strategies when you need them most.
✔ Live support for both moms & tweens – So neither of you has to navigate this alone.
✔ 3 personal 1:1 coaching calls – Get custom support to tackle your biggest challenges.
✔ Monthly challenges & workshops – Designed to build confidence, respect, and leadership in everyday moments.
This is the only program that supports both of you—because parenting and leadership go hand in hand.
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Dana, Mom of Two Girls
“I didn’t realize how much my daughter could be taught to do things for herself, including thinking, and how much confidence that gives her. I am behind, but Nik helps you where you are and we have grown so much already.”
IMAGINE THIS...
One day, your daughter tells you she’s stepping away from drama-filled friendships because she knows her worth.
Another night, she comes to you—not TikTok, not her friends—because she trusts you’ll listen.
She’s learning confidence, self-respect, and leadership.
And you? You’re leading her there—without doing it alone.
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“Life doesn’t slow down for parenting. That’s why this membership fits into your life on your terms. Together we can build the help and foundation you and your tween needs to thrive when stakes are low, so high school becomes a time of practice.
~Nik Bowers, M. Ed.
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Therapy vs. Membership: What’s Right for You?
Therapy is incredibly valuable—it helps process trauma and heal deep struggles. I fully support it.
But most tweens? They’re not broken. They’re just changing.
Middle school is emotional and overwhelming—for her and for you. What most families need isn’t hours of talking about feelings…
They need tools for the in-between moments.
✔ Emotional management – So emotions don’t run the show
✔ Logical thinking – So she learns to think before reacting
✔ Better communication – So you stop feeling like you’re talking to a wall
✔ Understanding what’s normal – Because you can't microwave maturity
✔ Skills you both grow together – So you lead with confidence
Therapy happens twice a month—but the hard moments happen daily.
✅ This membership gives you real-time coaching and support—so you’re not waiting weeks for help when you need it now.
This is the bridge between understanding the struggle and having the tools to move through it—together.
If you’re looking for practical, in-the-moment guidance to help you and your daughter thrive,
You’re in the right place.
Frequently Asked Questions
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