Does this sound familiar?

Parenting a tween can feel impossible.

• “My tween is great with everyone but at home she is mean."
• “If I ask my daughter what respect looks like, she just says, ‘I don’t know.’”
• “I’ve tried everything, and nothing works.”

The yelling, the power struggles, the constant battles—it’s like you’re speaking different languages.

Maybe you’ve thought, “I’m failing at this,” or worse, “What if this doesn’t get better?”

Here’s the truth: You’re not failing—you’re learning.

You wouldn’t navigate an unfamiliar city without a GPS, parenting needs a guide too. You already have the love—what you need is a plan. This is your parenting GPS.

The Transformation:
Parenting is leadership.

Leaders don’t wait—they take action, adapt, and guide with intention.

Leaders also do the things nobody sees quietly, behind closed doors.

This conversation is a must.

When your tween is losing it, it’s easy to react and let everything spiral. Without a plan, frustration takes over, and you both stay stuck in the same battles.

But this is you taking action. This is the start of a different kind of relationship—one built on trust instead of tension, teamwork instead of power struggles.

In just 30 minutes, you’ll go from yelling to a real conversation, from feeling like enemies to working as a team.

This process is your guide to shifting the dynamic—step by step, building respect, understanding, and connection along the way.

Every time a parent follows the plan, there’s a shift.

This is where the frustration ends, the partnership begins, and your leadership shines.

Can the entire family do this?

Absolutely! The Respect First Reset is designed for parents and tweens to work through together, creating stronger connections and shared understanding. 

You'll start with a quick pep talk just for you, then move into a guided video and activity where you define this for your family. 

It’s all about teamwork and building respect as a family!

I get it—you feel like you’ve tried everything, and you’re just done.

But here’s the thing: you can’t quit parenting; deep down, you don’t want to.

The good news? You haven’t tried this.

Why is this different? Because I’m the guide, not you.
You don’t have to carry the weight of figuring this out on your own. I lead the conversation, giving you and your tween the space to work together—not against each other. You’re not the guide this time, and that’s okay.

Why experience first? Because it works.
We start with a simple 30-minute conversation that gets real results—faster than an episode of your favorite Netflix show. You’ll see the shift happen right before you, and then I’ll teach you how to keep it going in the Parent Plan.

This isn’t just another thing to try. It’s the reset you’ve been looking for, and it works—even if you feel like you’re at the end of your rope.

My Experience—Why This Works

I’ve spent decades working with tweens and parents—as an educator, principal, and mom to two strong-willed daughters. This isn’t just theory—it’s proven and battle-tested.

⭐️ It worked with my most challenging students.

⭐️ It worked at home with my fiercely independent and strong-willed kids.

⭐️ It worked in my schools, bringing families back together.

And it’s working for my clients, transforming homes every day. I didn’t share this until I knew it worked—for me, for them, and now, for you.

What If My Tween Refuses?

Here’s the deal—you don’t need to beg or guilt them. You need a win-win.

Offer something they value: extra screen time, staying up late, or skipping a chore.

Say, “Give me 30 minutes, and I’ll give you 30 minutes of what you want.”

Yes, bribery works. And that’s okay—it’s about meeting them where they are and making it work for both of you.

Here is how it works:

It ALL Starts With Respect.

Without it, everything else feels impossible—teaching confidence, handling mean-girl drama, setting boundaries, or just surviving the eye rolls and mood swings.

If respect isn’t there, you feel stuck, and so does your child. Let’s fix that together. Because once respect is rebuilt, everything else gets easier. 

Why do you do the consult call afterward?

Leadership starts with action.

Parenting isn’t about overthinking or waiting for the perfect moment—it’s about taking action.

Strong leadership says, 'Let’s try.'

Once you take that first step, you’ll see what works, what doesn’t, and where to adjust. That’s how real growth happens—for you and your tween.

Parenting is leading.

—It Starts Now

Parenting is leadership, and leaders take action. 

⭐️ This is your moment to break the cycle, step into your role, and create the change your family needs.

⭐️ In just 30 minutes, you’ll go from power struggles to real conversations, from tension to trust, and from feeling stuck to working as a team. 

This isn’t just a one-time fix—it’s the foundation for a stronger, more respectful relationship.

The hardest step is showing up, and you’ve already done that. 

Lead your family to a better place.

The transformation begins with one choice—your choice.

Let’s make it happen together.